How to meet your old Friend

These are the time, when most of us have to move away from our hometowns to other cities or states for jobs...

As such we may lose touch with our old friends for long years...having connected on watsapp/FB is very much different than ACTUALLY meeting someone close after many years. & here most of us make a big mistake...

#  Apne dost se kaise mile?

Jab bhi aap apne kisi purane dost se mile, to aisi koi baat nahi kare  ki jo baat aapki haisiyat  ya uski haisiyat dikhati ho..

Kyoki bhagwan ne aapko rishtedar aur parivar chunane ki aajadi nahi di ....lekin dost chunane ki aajadi di hai..

Yaad rakhihiye aap kisi ko apna dost sirf isliye maante hai, kyo ki aap ek dusre se koi bhi favour expect nahi karte hai..

Jo kuch bhi man me aata hai wo dil se.. aur haq se aata hai..

Let me share you an incident with you...

Ek baar ek dost mujhe kai saalo baad mila...

I was very excited  to talk to him..

But suddenly i realized he started showing his financial status rather than talking about old memories...

He asked straight forward..yaar teri salary kitni hai ?

& I thought...(Abe Dabbe !!... ye to hame class 8th me hi padha diya gaya tha ke  we should never ask age of a women and salary of a man...No woman is satisfied by her age & No man is satisfied by his salary on this earth..)..(Smile)

Anyway i answered him...

Bhai ek baat bata..agar meri salary 1 lakh rupe monthly hui  to kya tu mujhe roj  din me teen baar phone karke mera haal chal puchega???...

Ya agar meri salary 12000 rupe per month hui to kya mujhe pahchane se bhi inkar kar dega...??

He did not expected that answer from me..& said nahi yaar ..in dono me se kuch nahi ...

Mera wo matlab nahi tha...me to bas aise hi pooch raha tha...

I than made him relax...

..are bhai hum dost tab se hai jab hum dono ki hi jeb khali thi..

To phir aaj kyo puchna ke aaj kiski jeb me kitna paisa hai ??

chal bahar chalte hain..

( & that day , i really meant " bahar "....not " bar " !!...) ..(Smile)

Did you get the point from the incident ??

DOOD !!....Pahle se hi hamari  asli pahchan professional relationship ke niche dabi hui hai

...to jab kabhi  bhi apna purana dost mil jaaye to usse apni baahen khol ke mile...

Meet your old freinds with open arms....bro !!

Ye puraane dost hi hai jo hamara saccha aaina hai, jisme hum apni asli soorat dekh sakte hai..warna mukhota lagakar to hum roz office jaa hi rahe hain...hain naa !!

Friends are the only relationship on this earth , who bring true happiness to us.

Do you know why...because there is NO MANDATORY  COMMITMENT in this relationship...

To be a friend or not to be a friend is totally in control of our hands...

This is the beauty of this relationship..you love me and i love you until we both agree...

No false commitment...no family pressure..no guilt of breaking up..

Everything true and happy..till  " WE " Agree....

                                                 Love you all!!